Why The Science of Trait Psychology May Just Predict Everything In Your Life with Dr. Brian R. Little
In this episode we go deep on the science of personality. We look at how we’ve moved way beyond the debate of nature vs nurture, we look at the “Myth of Authenticity" and the danger of “just being yourself,” we examine why human wellbeing (aka success) depends on the sustainable pursuit of core projects in our lives, explore the complex dance of self improvement between the limitation of biological, social factors and the identity of individuals, and look at how much agency and control we really have in shaping our personalities and lives among all of these different factors with our guest Dr. Brian Little.
What is Trait Psychology?
Traits do have predictive validity
“The Big Five” personality model is the most dominant perspective in personality trait psychology
OCEAN
Openness to experience
Conscientiousness
Extraversion
Agreeableness
Neuroticism
Honesty / humility is a sixth factor that may not be included in the “Big Five” model
These personality traits have consequential predictive ability for your life outcomes, happiness, marriage, success, divorce, etc
Big FIVE is a starting point but not the entire picture of your personality
The trait of conscientiousness is a very good predictor of work place success but also predicts health outcomes, why is that?
Conscientiousness is the tendency to get things done, to be responsible, self regulate, etc
Disagreeable people also have a health risk factor - low agreeableness shows an increased risk for heart disease
Openness-to-experience and conscietouness have different paths to success - but both can be successful predictors of positive life outcomes
The myth of the creative hero. The creative project is much more important than the illusion of the solo creative.
How changeable or immutable are our personality traits? Are we stuck with the personality we are born with?
What are “Free traits” and how do they interact with our personality?
Your trait expressions can be shaped not just by your biology but also by the things that really matter to you - by your own “personal projects”
If you constantly act out of character - you may eventually run the risk of burning out
The study of our traits gets us INTO the study of personality but not ALL THE WAY in
We’ve moved WAY beyond the nature vs nurture debate
Genetic expression is a matter of external influence than shapes the expression of genes
Certain personality expressions are linked to either dopamine or serotonin expression in the brain
There is a biological “base” to our personality - but it’s a base that we can either act against or act in accordance with it
You are like all other people in some ways, like some other people, and like no other person
Self improvement is a dance between biological, social, and individual factors
Traits are a necessary way of understanding personality but they are not sufficient
We explore "The Bodnarian Aspects of Matt"
Rather than a black and white concept that an individual just a collection/combination of traits - its a complicated mix of biology, social impacts, and individual desires/goals etc
How much agency and control do we have in shaping our own personalities amid the stew of factors that impact who we are
We are not just pawns - we can shape things and change the trajectory of our lives (within reasonable boundaries)
You must begin with a reasonable appraisal of the ecosystem in which you live and work
Many people squander their 20s pursuing the wrong roads or paths
“Go for it” feels good - but its often a cheap way out - take a harder look and really look at the best path forward for yourself
Accepting and facing reality as it is - including your own limitations and weaknesses - is an essential component of success
Human wellbeing (“success”) depends on the sustainable pursuit of core projects in our lives.
The sustainable pursuit can be maintained if you have a mix of internal motivation and a realistic assessment of your own ecosystem
Envisioning your barriers may increase your effectiveness and ability to solve them
Natural dispositions that we don’t borrow from our cultural scripts are the first line of influence that help shape what becomes the core projects in our lives
Out of the stew emerge biological shaped, but also socially influenced possible futures for yourself that are anchored in core projects
The sustainable pursuit of core projects is vital - the way in which we get them is
The “Myth of Authenticity" and the danger of “just being yourself"
The origin of your self improvement projects is very important
Homework: If you want to play outside your personality comfort zone, start with small uncomfortable changes and gradually build into more and more difficult situations
Homework: Conduct short term experiments, self change experiments, “fixed role explorations” and then monitor the impact that has on your personality and behavior
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Show Notes, Links, & Research
[Book] Me, Myself, and Us: The Science of Personality and the Art of Well-Being by Brian R Little
[Book] Who Are You, Really?: The Surprising Puzzle of Personality (TED Books) by Brian R. Little
[Book] Introduction to Personality by Walter Mischel
[Wiki Article] Albert Bandura
[Encyclopedia Article] Bernard Williams
[Wiki Article] Personal construct theory
[NYU Profile] Gabriele Oettingen